Yesterday I realized that it was one month ago today that Rick had surgery to define the challenges he will have for the rest of his life...made me wonder what we have accomplished and if we've grown the way we should over the last month. We have certainly been blessed by many caring family and friends who have helped in many ways, most frequently by their quiet prayers. As Rick returned from surgery again today (to place a port line)..I wondered, where the month had gone and if we were improved people. There is always a way to be better...we have decided we have many ways to grow!
We have certainly been busy. Cam has moved home and has secured two part-time jobs and is calling this his "summer" He will be picking up one or two online classes to fill some requirements that are added in his planned transfer to BYU this Spring/Summer. He has been busily planning with counselors etc. to organize his continued education. He has been a tremendous help to us in the last month! We are sad he had to interrupt his educational plans, but glad he is here.
Katie has also made some very difficult decisions. She rec'd her mission call to Oakland, California. She has always wanted to be a California girl and this was her chance! After much counsel and prayer, she has decided to defer her call for a while to see how things work out here at home. She too has kicked into her organizing and care-taker role and has gone with Dad to appts etc. and filled in where I couldn't be there. Dad says that she is bossy, but that's in a good way. She keeps track of the details and makes sure that everyone is taking the best care of him that they should. We love and appreciate her for that...again we are sad that the immediate plans in her life are on hold...we want the best for her and want her to continue progressing in her happiness!
Sarah and Jake came last Wednesday, a day late d/t Jake's fall down their stairs and his subsequent ER visit to set and cast his broken arm. He was in pain for a couple of days, but since then, he hardly knows he is casted from his fingers to high on his upper arm. He has been a ray of sunshine and he and grandpa have been playing cub-scout and camping...where have all my flashlights gone????? Rick was not able to come as planned, but deferred his trip until yesterday. It is good to have everyone under one roof again. We'll have that for at least a few days. We are grateful for their little family and for the second grandchild that will join us in the early summer. We pray for Sarah and her ability to be healthy and strong in body and spirit. We constantly pray for Rick's continued success and ability to care for his family. Funny how you never quite feel that you aren't totally responsible for those things anymore....We love and appreciate them all!
So if I were to summarize my month, the word that comes to mind is Gratitude...so much to be grateful for...even challenges that smooth our rough edges...We love our family!
Thursday, October 30, 2008
Tuesday, October 14, 2008
....Jakie....
Jakie called tonight and guess what he sang to me??? A Child's Prayer, with a pretty good semblance of the tune. Could be with a little help from his Dad, but again, music soothes my soul.
Sunday, October 12, 2008
Music of my heart...
Today in Primary, we happened to sing "A Child's Prayer" For those who may not remember the words here they are some of them...
Heavenly Father, are you really there?
And do you hear and answer ev’ry child’s prayer?
Some say that heaven is far away,
But I feel it close around me as I pray.
Heavenly Father, I remember now
Something that Jesus told disciples long ago:
“Suffer the children to come to me.”
Father, in prayer I’m coming now to thee.
Pray, he is there;
Speak, he is list’ning.
You are his child;
His love now surrounds you.
He hears your prayer;
He loves the children.
Of such is the kingdom, the kingdom of heav’n.
(Words and music: Janice Kapp Perry, b. 1938)
Those words spoke to my fragile heart today. My 9-year old primary boys probably wondered what on earth was the matter with me, but in fact, the windows of heaven opened for a moment and comforted me with the words...and His spirit, His love did surround me.
Yesterday, I was driving toward Dad's funeral and heard an instrumental version of "Dearest Children, God is Near You." I was humming along when those words made me stand at attention.
Dearest Children, God is near you;
Watching o'er you day and night;
And delights to own and bless you;
If you try to do what's right.
He will bless you!
He will bless you!
If you put your trust in Him.
We have been laying our burdens at the Savior's feet and trusting in Him that he knows best and will help and support us. I felt that this song came to my mind as a witness to His promise to care for us. Another Tender Mercy.
Today as Katie contemplates her mission and when to go... again I was touched by music:
Do What is Right...#237
The third verse:
Do what is right, be faithful and fearless.
Onward, press onward the goal is in sight.
Eyes that are wet now ere long will be tearless.
Blessings await you in doing what's right!
Too many applications to be coincidence. My soul has been soothed by the music we love. I will never sing these songs in the same way again. I thank our Heavenly Father for his care and keeping of me this day as He always has. I wish it hadn't taken this sort of shock to help me remember who I am and who loves me and my family; and who will do about anything to calm a troubled heart. I love my Father in Heaven, and my brother, the Savior Jesus Christ.
Heavenly Father, are you really there?
And do you hear and answer ev’ry child’s prayer?
Some say that heaven is far away,
But I feel it close around me as I pray.
Heavenly Father, I remember now
Something that Jesus told disciples long ago:
“Suffer the children to come to me.”
Father, in prayer I’m coming now to thee.
Pray, he is there;
Speak, he is list’ning.
You are his child;
His love now surrounds you.
He hears your prayer;
He loves the children.
Of such is the kingdom, the kingdom of heav’n.
(Words and music: Janice Kapp Perry, b. 1938)
Those words spoke to my fragile heart today. My 9-year old primary boys probably wondered what on earth was the matter with me, but in fact, the windows of heaven opened for a moment and comforted me with the words...and His spirit, His love did surround me.
Yesterday, I was driving toward Dad's funeral and heard an instrumental version of "Dearest Children, God is Near You." I was humming along when those words made me stand at attention.
Dearest Children, God is near you;
Watching o'er you day and night;
And delights to own and bless you;
If you try to do what's right.
He will bless you!
He will bless you!
If you put your trust in Him.
We have been laying our burdens at the Savior's feet and trusting in Him that he knows best and will help and support us. I felt that this song came to my mind as a witness to His promise to care for us. Another Tender Mercy.
Today as Katie contemplates her mission and when to go... again I was touched by music:
Do What is Right...#237
The third verse:
Do what is right, be faithful and fearless.
Onward, press onward the goal is in sight.
Eyes that are wet now ere long will be tearless.
Blessings await you in doing what's right!
Too many applications to be coincidence. My soul has been soothed by the music we love. I will never sing these songs in the same way again. I thank our Heavenly Father for his care and keeping of me this day as He always has. I wish it hadn't taken this sort of shock to help me remember who I am and who loves me and my family; and who will do about anything to calm a troubled heart. I love my Father in Heaven, and my brother, the Savior Jesus Christ.
What's the Plan?
The most common question to us right now is, "What's the plan?" We met last week with our Dr. who will be directing Rick's treatment. We feel good that he has done all of his homework and has consulted and presented all the facts to many who could give good input to this next step. We hope that early to mid-week that Rick will have had his first treatment. We feel fairly certain that the origin of the cancer is colon and we will treat that way. Although we don't look forward to the treatment itself, we are praying that it will be the right group of drugs. We have learned that there is not an exactness to the process like there would be if you had broken bones...when you hear "practicing medicine" sometimes that is just what it is...practicing until the right combination is found that helps to arrest his particular cancer. He will have a long-term IV access line placed this week and then we'll be good to go with the first treatment. Keep us and our caregivers in your thoughts and prayers.
As we meet this challenge, we have so appreciated all of the family, friends and neighbors that have stepped forward to show support and offer prayers...we love you all and love that you are willing to keep us in your prayers...we need every one.
As we meet this challenge, we have so appreciated all of the family, friends and neighbors that have stepped forward to show support and offer prayers...we love you all and love that you are willing to keep us in your prayers...we need every one.
Wednesday, October 1, 2008
....Tender Mercies......
Our lives have dramatically changed in the last 48 hours, and will likely never be the same. We have learned that our beloved husband and dad has cancer. We have all expressed to each other that these things happen to "other people" and never expected them to happen to us. We seem to have raised our hands somewhere before we came here to say that we would be glad to take on these challenges and life's lessons if we could only come, gain bodies, work hard at living the gospel and find joy in our existence here on earth.
As we have learned this news, we have been surrounded by angels both mortal and immortal and have experienced the tender mercies of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Though we have challenges ahead, we feel confident that with the help of those that the Lord places in our path, we can do this.
As Rick and I talked tonight, we don't know how much time we have, and I don't think that time will be measured in minutes, hours, days, weeks, months or years. The way our time will be measured is in how we spend this next portion of our lives. We will spend it in deepening our relationships with each other, our children, grandchildren and with our families. We will be willing to say "I Love You" often, we will be willing to speak the things of our hearts so that they will forever be known and understood. We will help and support one another. We will make choices that have meaning to our eternal progression.
We will be faithful, prayerful, have hope, AND, we will be mindful of the numerous tender mercies that the Lord has in store for us.
"The Lord is good to all: and his tender mercies are over all his works." Psalms 145:9
As we have learned this news, we have been surrounded by angels both mortal and immortal and have experienced the tender mercies of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Though we have challenges ahead, we feel confident that with the help of those that the Lord places in our path, we can do this.
As Rick and I talked tonight, we don't know how much time we have, and I don't think that time will be measured in minutes, hours, days, weeks, months or years. The way our time will be measured is in how we spend this next portion of our lives. We will spend it in deepening our relationships with each other, our children, grandchildren and with our families. We will be willing to say "I Love You" often, we will be willing to speak the things of our hearts so that they will forever be known and understood. We will help and support one another. We will make choices that have meaning to our eternal progression.
We will be faithful, prayerful, have hope, AND, we will be mindful of the numerous tender mercies that the Lord has in store for us.
"The Lord is good to all: and his tender mercies are over all his works." Psalms 145:9
Wednesday, September 24, 2008
Where did September Go?
Today I am home cleaning up my home-office and wondering what happened to the Month of September? I have now been back in school for a month and have spent most of my extra minutes in reading or studying...a boring existence for Rick...so he decided to spice up life and get sick...as we speak he is in the hospital, under the care of my new friends on the Medical floor. He has been there for nearly 48 hours and although he has been pumped full of good things like antibiotics, he is still feeling pretty puny and is maybe a teeny bit better...I guess we should be glad for that, but we both wanted a quicker turnaround....it is hard to watch him go down and be physically and emotionally spent. They are making sure he stays on clear liquids and doing all of the things the Dr. says...his Dr. has a habit of coming in at 10 p.m. so I never get to talk with him..so I have to take what Rick says and hope I get it all. Keep him in your prayers for all good things he needs right now!
Other than that, Katie turned 21 yesterday...where did 21 years go. I still remember the delivery room (yes a real delivery room with bright lights and hospital equipment) when they told me Katie was a girl...I remember saying..."Un- Uh!" Thought for sure I had another boy, but I had my sweet girl, who is full of spice! She has teased and loved her brothers fiercely, they don't have a greater fan. She has made me way proud of her in this month...she has had a challenge put before her and she has taken it on and won! It has been good to see her stick to her goals and work hard to achieve them. We celebrated on her birthday at Chef's table, her favorite place...she had chicken of course and a few bites of chocolate cake...she can't miss her favorite cake! We missed Dad though, he had chicken broth and jello. Thanks Katie for making my last 21 years eventful and fun!
We are missing Rick, Sarah and Jakie...for some reason, Pittsburgh seems way further away than Seattle. They are settling in and getting used to the new culture they find themselves in and are making friends and serving in their ward. They are also finding out what it is like to have Rick gone all day, coming home tired, and yet still having things to do at home...yes it is the real world. We are also missing Cam, back at school and hard at it! He works so hard I worry about him...Katie probably has it pegged, he is too much like me...so sorry Cam...I know I "freak out" as Katie puts it about school...so I don't have any room to talk...Keep all us "schoolies" in your prayers as well.
Well, that's us for now...hope time slows down a little, I am running hard and having a hard time catching up...
Other than that, Katie turned 21 yesterday...where did 21 years go. I still remember the delivery room (yes a real delivery room with bright lights and hospital equipment) when they told me Katie was a girl...I remember saying..."Un- Uh!" Thought for sure I had another boy, but I had my sweet girl, who is full of spice! She has teased and loved her brothers fiercely, they don't have a greater fan. She has made me way proud of her in this month...she has had a challenge put before her and she has taken it on and won! It has been good to see her stick to her goals and work hard to achieve them. We celebrated on her birthday at Chef's table, her favorite place...she had chicken of course and a few bites of chocolate cake...she can't miss her favorite cake! We missed Dad though, he had chicken broth and jello. Thanks Katie for making my last 21 years eventful and fun!
We are missing Rick, Sarah and Jakie...for some reason, Pittsburgh seems way further away than Seattle. They are settling in and getting used to the new culture they find themselves in and are making friends and serving in their ward. They are also finding out what it is like to have Rick gone all day, coming home tired, and yet still having things to do at home...yes it is the real world. We are also missing Cam, back at school and hard at it! He works so hard I worry about him...Katie probably has it pegged, he is too much like me...so sorry Cam...I know I "freak out" as Katie puts it about school...so I don't have any room to talk...Keep all us "schoolies" in your prayers as well.
Well, that's us for now...hope time slows down a little, I am running hard and having a hard time catching up...
Friday, September 12, 2008
Where have I been????
Wow, what a busy time! In late August I started school again, then on Aug 30th we flew off to Pittsburgh for a few days visit with Rick and Sarah and Jakie, then back to catching up at work and really getting into school.
I have survived almost three weeks of school, and so far, am still passing stats! It is going to be a challenge of the first order. Hopefully I'll find some friends that will help me when the going gets tougher...(it's already tough). We have a field trip scheduled though...to Smith & Edwards in Ogden...ask me what we're going to do there.
Work has been extremely busy and I have been trying to catch up on all of the things that I didn't get done while out for 4 days (1 for school, 1 holiday and three other days)...there's one thing I gotta say: NO ONE DOES MY WORK WHILE I'M GONE. So it waits.
It was great to see the Rick, Sarah and Jake again. Jake has grown so much! I am always amazed at his adult conversation and his thought processes....he's a lot of fun, until he decides he can get away from you in a store and RUN...scares me to death! When they picked us up at the airport, I was the first one to the car, grandpa was still getting the luggage...Jake, true to his grandpa-fan form...said, "Hi Grandma, where's Grandpa???" He loves his grandpa!!!! Good thing the feeling is mutual....it was hard to come back as usual! We saw the sights of Pittsburgh, Gettysburg and even a little Amish country...and very impressive is the size of the company that Rick is working for...amazing the number of beds in a 5 block radius must be over 1,700-2000. Amazing...and 95% occupancy...crazy!!! After seeing that, I am glad for our measly 500-ish beds in our region. Whew!
Wherever we have been, we're back home now!
I have survived almost three weeks of school, and so far, am still passing stats! It is going to be a challenge of the first order. Hopefully I'll find some friends that will help me when the going gets tougher...(it's already tough). We have a field trip scheduled though...to Smith & Edwards in Ogden...ask me what we're going to do there.
Work has been extremely busy and I have been trying to catch up on all of the things that I didn't get done while out for 4 days (1 for school, 1 holiday and three other days)...there's one thing I gotta say: NO ONE DOES MY WORK WHILE I'M GONE. So it waits.
It was great to see the Rick, Sarah and Jake again. Jake has grown so much! I am always amazed at his adult conversation and his thought processes....he's a lot of fun, until he decides he can get away from you in a store and RUN...scares me to death! When they picked us up at the airport, I was the first one to the car, grandpa was still getting the luggage...Jake, true to his grandpa-fan form...said, "Hi Grandma, where's Grandpa???" He loves his grandpa!!!! Good thing the feeling is mutual....it was hard to come back as usual! We saw the sights of Pittsburgh, Gettysburg and even a little Amish country...and very impressive is the size of the company that Rick is working for...amazing the number of beds in a 5 block radius must be over 1,700-2000. Amazing...and 95% occupancy...crazy!!! After seeing that, I am glad for our measly 500-ish beds in our region. Whew!
Wherever we have been, we're back home now!
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