Time here....

"Time here is measured in relationships, in helping friends and family, not in objects obtained."
Angela Nelson, artist.

Although this quote was taken from an entirely different context, it impressed me for a different reason than the author intended. She was talking about pioneers in Ghana.

I was snapped back into my family's current challenge. Over the last month, we have been caring for Rick at home, with one brief hospitalization. Things have not been easy, we have all had our ups and downs. We have learned, we have progressed, but we have not perfected...not yet.

During the month, I have been impressed by people that have in some way been partners in relationships with Rick over the years. They have stretched as far back as childhood friends, to people who have worked with and for him, to people and professionals who have cared for him, to people who have sung with him, to wonderful neighbors, to many extended family members, to friends of mine, who first knew me and then loved him.

It has been a constant outpouring of love and devotion.

As I watch these tender moments as these kindred spirits visit with him, I am reminded of his impact upon many and how his life will be measured. It will not be measured in possessions, but in love unfeigned. It will be measured in his gentle service to his profession, to family, to friends and to total strangers. Many of those people will be waiting on the other side to thank him for his gentle caring for each of them in their time of need.

May our lives be so measured....